

That wasn't always the best tactic I'm sure, and most likely she's sick of everyone giving her tons of unsolicited advice, and being the baby of the family she's had to listen to the whole family telling her what to do her whole life. Maybe that's why she turned out so well though? HA.

Over the weekend, we were just laughing about all of the accidents and mishaps Tamra has had growing up. Accidents from the trampoline alone could make a long list. It's a miracle she never broke a bone or seriously injured herself. She had what we used to call the "explosive" syndrome, where she would just come running, stumbling, and crashing into a room.

Funny, I think Kendle inherited that same trait.
She was a fun kid and grew up playing sports and was always very involved with academics and school responsibilities. Tam is the type of person that would stress out about getting an A-, she was always striving to be the best and stay at the top of her class. She's never been afraid to walk to the beat of her own drum and she is an original person not afraid to branch out and do something or wear something different. People really admire that about her. It's been an asset to her through the years as I've watched her friends go down wrong paths, and their clothing becoming more and more questionable. She's been a pillar of light at that high school and for everyone around her. Her teachers, church leaders, coaches, friends and friends parents respect and enjoy her. If there was ever an activity in question, most of Tam's friends' parents would call my mom to see if she was letting Tam go before they made their decision. That to me says a lot.

Recently she had a pretty low moment where she was the last person up to bat in their state playoff game, and she struck out. She was so disappointed in herself and was so upset. She felt like she let her team down when they needed her the most. It was hard for me to sit back and let her have her moment of being sad, but I know that life dishes up some pretty mean disappointments at times and part of growing up is learning how to deal with them. This was one of her times and I knew she'd come out of it OK. In true Tamra fashion she stopped beating herself up about it and even managed to laugh about it a little. Life is hard sometimes, and everything doesn't always come our way, but we dust ourselves off and try to learn something from our mistakes and failures.
With her successes and achievements, it would be easy for people around her to be intimidated or envious but she is so humble and down to earth and will be the first one to compliment someone else for what they've done. Here are some highlights of her senior year:
-1st team all-league for Volleyball
-Homecoming princess
-1st team all-league for Softball
-Prom Queen
-National Honor Society President
-Presidential Academic Achievement Award
This is a girl who could have been studying Nuclear Physics or pre-med in college, (man, I wanted a doctor in the family) but has chosen to follow her true desire of art and photography. Having a photographer in the family has it's *perks* too.

I know she will do great things in her life and be successful at whatever she chooses. And even though she refused to change any of my kids dirty diapers for me, I still love her so much and will miss her being gone next year. I hope she still feels like she needs little old me and doesn't forget to drop us a line once in a while, even when she's having fun and doing the college thing. I know that little town is too small for her and she's dying to leave, but I hope she enjoyes her graduation this weekend and her last summer at home. We are so proud of you Tam, and we will always be there for you through your ups, downs and whatever.
*One last request, Father Time please slow the heck down.*
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